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Great moments in science: giving electric shocks to masochists
We’ve had two posts on the psychoanalyst Dr June Rathbone, and her textbook on “Masochism”. The book’s mainly interesting for its over-the-top hostility to the people she chose as her topic. Still, if...
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Jian Ghomeshi, safe-words, face-hitting and choking
Jian Ghomeshi, radio guy, alleged non-consensual puncher and choker of women. Bdsm martyr? No thanks. There’s a guy, Jian Ghomeshi. He was a Canadian radio host. Apparently he was good at that. But he...
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Banned from Pinterest
My Pinterest page has been taken down. I thought it was pretty innocent, but anyway, someone at Pinterest doesn’t like mild bdsm imagery. I saved it only a couple of days before it went down, so I’ll...
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BDSM and pick-up artists
I’ve mostly ignored the pick-up community. On this blog, obviously, but also in my life. 1 Better a person than a method The main thing I know about encouraging a woman to want to fuck me is to talk...
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Moth to mouth: Ties that bind in a police state of mind
I’m visiting Cuba. It’s a police state. Seriously. And my phone doesn’t work and I can’t get the internet. There are no newspapers. The woman in this Cuban painting isn’t a real policewoman. We know...
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Mouth to mouth 19: After-anal care for the not quite submissive woman
The last thing I remember for a while was finding myself half asleep and my cock softening, still semi-hard and still mostly inside Qing’s asshole. I grabbed the ends of the condom before I softened...
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Go back to the five and dime, Jimmy Deen, Jimmy Deen
This is Stoya. I picked this shot since it’s as close to a demure pic as I could find. I‘ve never met Stoya. And, weirdly, I’ve never seen a porn with her in it. But I decided a long time ago that...
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Visas and sex work in Russia
So, Russian bureaucracy is … frustrating. I don’t have my visa, and they took my passport, while they consider whether to issue me with my visa. So if a Jerusalem Mortimer starts committing...
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Orlando furioso
Some of the Orlando dead, from the Pulse Nightclub massacre of gay men and women and their friends “Alas, good friend, what profit can you see In hating such a hateless thing as me? There is no sport...
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Orlando thoughts: the bdsm and LGBTI communities
The rainbow flag Sometimes people in the bdsm community – that would include me – talk about discrimination against people who are known to be involved in bdsm. For example, there was a Cabinet...
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Wicked Wednesday: Jennifer’s pleats and pleas 5
I stroked Jennifer’s bottom and slim flanks gently, enjoying the heat radiating from her apple-red buttocks and the upper slopes of her thighs, and the relative coolness of her mid-thighs where her...
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Some bdsm-related reasons why hitting children is a bad idea 9: How many...
An adult and a child are turned on by a spanking: what are the odds? Let’s take the United States. Beating children and young people in public schools is legal in 19 States. In those States, 272,000...
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Some bdsm-related reasons why beating children is a bad idea 10: children’s...
How often will both the teacher and the child be aroused during a “spanking”? The 5% rule means there are likely to be 816 instances a year where both the teacher and the child are mutually aroused by...
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Wicked Wednesday: Jennifer’s pleats and pleas 6
Jennifer had her side to me, hands hovering about the hems of her panties. She’d seen herself in the glass of my cabinet, and the glowing red of her bottom had embarrassed her. Confused, she turned to...
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Some bdsm-related reasons why hitting children is a bad idea 11:
Does child-beating in schools “cause” people do become involved in bdsm as adults? In one sense the answer is “yes”. Charles Moser’s research on a bdsm community in California found that about 5% of...
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Wicked Wednesday: Jennifer’s pleats and pleas 7
Jennifer couldn’t believe that she’d thanked me for spanking her, but her words still hung in the air. Her face blushed as furiously as her bottom. She squirmed, and her little skirt rode up to the...
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Some bdsm-related reasons why hitting children is a bad idea 12: Summing up 1
The general case against beating children There are good non-bdsm reasons for not hitting children. We know that it doesn’t work, that it makes kids more violent, and that there that there are other,...
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Some bdsm-related reasons why hitting children is a bad idea 13: Summing up...
So 1 in 20 teachers and children are likely to respond sexually to child-beating in schools: what’s wrong with that? We managed to get rid of this shit… That may seem an obvious question, but it’s...
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Wicked Wednesday: Jennifer’s pleats and pleas 8
I’d suggested to Jennifer that she might want to do a little more, to prove not just to me but to herself that she really was a good girl. She seemed to accept the principle. But I expected some...
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Wicked Wednesday: Jennifer’s pleats and pleas 9: Maddie interlude
When I opened the door Maddie was feeding another ream of paper into the photocopier. I knew the paper drawer had been full to maximum before Jennifer walked into my office, and there was no chance it...
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